TY - BOOK AU - Simring Steven S AU - Simring Sue Klavans AU - Isaacs Florence TI - Blindspots: stop repeating mistakes that mess up your love life, career, finances, and happiness SN - 159077079X AV - BF637.S37 PY - 2005/// CY - New York, NY PB - M. Evans and Co. KW - Selfdefeating behavior N1 - What is a blindspot? -- Assess your own blindspots -- Identifying the eight critical blindspots -- The five-step foolproof plan -- How major life changes affect blindspots -- Tools for making better life decisions -- #1 wishful thinking -- #2 not knowing when you're in or out of control -- #3 believing in myths -- #4 not knowing how you come across -- #5 looking for a hero -- #6 being a hero or savior -- #7 overwhelming emotion -- #8 bad timing -- Strategies for changing problem behavior patterns -- Using feedback to control blindspots -- When you need professional help -- Building on success -- Moving on UR - http://www.loc.gov/catdir/toc/ecip059/2005007471.html ER -